There seems to me to be a lot of over projection going on and correlating more subtle things all the way over to hate. What this person expressed was disgust, the act of expressing it can exhibit malice or hate but it's not necessarily the intent. Much like someone could smell like putrid sour milk or bathed in sewage and you experience and express disgust to them for their lack of personal hygiene. It might not be kind, but the reaction isn't exactly hate either. Many people still feel disgust over bodily mutilations like tattoos, forked tongues, piercings, gauges and even non-elective things like severed limbs, deformed appendages or skin grafted scarring. You aren't going to punch or persecute someone from feeling that disgust and saying that these types of actions are deserved is a toxic bullying tactic, similar to their need of expressing disgust. I'd further say you are more likely to create someone who hates because of that tactic than creating someone who can normalize something they are disgusted by.
OP you deserve love and support, but don't let others twist you into feeling malice or hate back, there is really no time for that kind of bullshit in someone's life.
There seems to me to be a lot of over projection going on and correlating more subtle things all the way over to hate. What this person expressed was disgust, the act of expressing it can exhibit malice or hate but it's not necessarily the intent. Much like someone could smell like putrid sour milk or bathed in sewage and you experience and express disgust to them for their lack of personal hygiene. It might not be kind, but the reaction isn't exactly hate either. Many people still feel disgust over bodily mutilations like tattoos, forked tongues, piercings, gauges and even non-elective things like severed limbs, deformed appendages or skin grafted scarring. You aren't going to punch or persecute someone from feeling that disgust and saying that these types of actions are deserved is a toxic bullying tactic, similar to their need of expressing disgust. I'd further say you are more likely to create someone who hates because of that tactic than creating someone who can normalize something they are disgusted by.
OP you deserve love and support, but don't let others twist you into feeling malice or hate back, there is really no time for that kind of bullshit in someone's life.